Are you aware of the few feminine tricks that will make him love you? Do you ever look at women in love and wonder how they got their man to fall to their knees? How can you reach the heart of the man you've fallen for? While this comes easy to some women, many are at a loss when it comes to attracting a mate and keeping him.
Women should know that men confuse sex with love. Choosing to ignore this basic fact, many women strut their sexy stuff and easily get a man into their bed. During this intimate contact, some women develop the first inkling of emotion and assume the man has as well. Unfortunately, it doesn't often work out that way. While you may be intoxicated by the soft touch of his skin, the tender brush of his lips, or perhaps even the heartfelt promises he murmured into your ear, for him it is often a matter of "Thanks for the great night. See ya."
Once you know and accept this simple fact, you can better prepare yourself. Don't put all the effort into arousing his sexual interest. Instead, arouse his curiosity, his intrigue, his intellect. You're more than just a curvaceous body and a pretty face, and he should be aware of the total package you have to offer.
So hold off a quick trip to the bedroom for a while and concentrate on getting to know him and allowing him to learn about you. Think of the best indicator of a great date. It's not sex, or dinner, or his attire. No, when you hear someone say, "We stayed up all night talking," you know they've made a connection.
When out on a date with a guy you really like, have fun and be fun to be with. Allow the conversation to flow easily from one fun topic to another. Be inquisitive and get him to talk about himself. Find out what interests him and what makes his eyes light up. Don't hijack the conversation and go on about "me, me, me." Yes, you want him to learn about you as well, but you neither want to spill absolutely everything about yourself, nor do you want to bore him to tears with too much information.
If you know you tend to be overly chatty, keep your eyes on his and be aware when his gaze starts to wander, or when he tries to interject a word here or there, don't just barrel through with your story. Be conscious of his interest level and engage him in the conversation.
Most women have a hard time holding back the emotions they feel once they fall in love with a man. Some tend to become overly touchy, feely or a tad possessive or over demanding. As difficult as it may be to hold in the growing love you have for him, don't be too quick to divulge the extent of your love with the expectation of his love in return. Men sometimes take a little longer in either realizing or accepting the love they have for a woman. Give him time. Give him space. Give him a chance to fall so madly in love with you that he'll be the one coming after you.
If you want to make him love you, have fun with the process and don't be too impatient.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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